Relationship

Many of us will meet a person by whom we are very much impressed. we listen to his/her advice or take their suggestion for everything that we do. We might also say that we are very well connected to that person.

But how many of us stop there. Many a times we forget who we are and try to become that person that we forget to connect with our self. We are very happy to announce that we share every thoughts of ours with an other person. But how many of our thoughts do we share it with our self. How much do we know about our self.
 What I am sharing on this blog is  my own experience. All these years I always thought that I am very close to my sister with whom I am able to share everything. But i never realized that I was totally a stranger to myself. I was behaving with different people differently. That is, in the way they wanted me to behave. I this circus I forgotten the original me. Whom I am searching desperately now but sadly it will take a lot of time and energy to find me.
 It is a very sad condition or a horrible condition for one to be in where they have lost them self or forgotten themselves. Thankfully for me I have beautiful people in my life who made me realized that i have lost the original me that is, the originality in me. I was fortunate enough to find it out at least now. I had become so duplicate that now i am realizing that many things that i have been doing had no originality at all and i have been copying from any person with whom i would have been impressed due to which i have lost the entity that is me. Now i am on the quest of searching myself.
 For me the real journey has started now. Of course it is not an easy path. There are lot of turmoils that are going on inside my mind and also lot of tugs that are going on with the people around me. But I have come to a realization that we cannot achieve anything without a struggle.
I am putting all these things into writing today because I don't want this realization to go away from me. This write should always remind me that i am in a quest to find my self.

Thanks to people who noticed this and set me on the write path.

Before we relate with others we should relate to our selfs.